Tomorrow we will board a flight to Cedar Rapids, Iowa. We will then make our way to the land where my life began: Waterloo, Iowa. This is the land of my heritage. I am and forever will be amazed by the gift of legacy I have been given. My grandfather passed away this morning. I am surprising myself in how well I am handling this. I am truly rejoicing in his life, legacy and future. He taught me to live a life of love, discipline and dedication to my Lord, family and work. I will always be indebted to his example and love to me. His last breath was taken in the same hospital as my first breath. As families grow and move to other cities and states it can be hard to stay connected to where you come from. This is a bittersweet reminder of where my life started.
I could go on for pages in telling you amazing ways of how he has helped mold me into the person I am today. I have wept in remembrance of sweet memories of our times together. He was born in 1920 and lived through this world seeing many hard times as well as joyous ones. I saw him leading a wife, children, grandchildren and great grandchildren and he is an example of a life that was well lived.
There are a few memories of him that I will always keep. There is the twinkle of his sparkling blue eyes. His strong large hands that worked the land and made a living for his family. The same hands that engulfed my small hands and made me feel like an eternal child; safe in his grasp. His adorable laugh that truly shook his whole chest as he would laugh at a joke or a life situation. His devotion to my Grandmother and love for his family. His dedication to praying for each of us by name daily and loving to recite scripture to us. This was a man of character. They do not come along too often any more. What an honor it has been to have been a part of his life and legacy.
Here is a song by Waterdeep that my friend Gisele shared with me today. What a perfect description. Life is a journey and at times can be hard, but what a good, good end he is experiencing to this life.
Good, Good End
You can leave right now
You can ring a bell
You can tell ‘em you think I ain’t doin’ too well
But when I stood like you
I eventually fell
So you can leave right now
Go on and ring your bell
I’m amazed by life
And it’s amazed by me
We’re a strange old pair- me and eternity
It don’t make good sense
It ain’t easy to see
But I’m amazed by life
And it’s amazed by me
It’s a long hard road
With a good, good end
And if I keep on walking on past the crooked bend
I will meet my Maker
I will meet my Friend
It’s a long hard road
With a good, good end
I leave you with a few images of Iowa and the family farm at sunrise. I truly think this is how Grandpa envisioned heaven to be.
katie- i love that you are focusing on his amazing life… filled with people that loved him & will always remember him.
my grandfather passed away 3 summers ago & it’s not the easiest thing to endure for sure. but, you are handling this with such grace.
may you always cherish him!
i’ll be heading to atanta late july- would love to grab lunch with you & chris sometime!
Your words take me back home to the lush green grass and sweet farm smell. In the middle of those memories is a family that has left us an awesome legacy.
God’s garden is the most beautiful because He choses the best
what beautiful words Katie.. he sounds like an amazing person, and that his strength will always be with you.
I’m so sorry you guys. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Beautifully said. It was great running into you two this morning in the Atlanta airport. How random. Sorry though that it was under these circumstances. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Peace.
Oh, Katie. Thank you for describing your special grandfather to us all. I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙁 Travel safe. We love you!
well.
i’m crying.
i’m sorry for your loss – he sounds like an honorable and respectable man, but it’s wonderful he’s gone home.
do you think when he got there, he said “is this iowa?” (“no, it’s heaven.”)
🙂
beautiful.
I think your first image of Iowa made me even more emotional than your beautiful post.
I’m praying for you and your family!